The other day one of my clients said to me I am feeling very lost, I don’t know what my purpose is, I don’t know what I am supposed to accomplish.  So I said to her, why is it so bad that you are feeling lost.  Maybe sitting on it for a while will help you find your way.  Yes, it is uncomfortable but what if instead of thinking of it as negative you realized you could probably use the uncomfortable feeling and spend some time really soul searching.  Taking the time to understand what it is you are really looking for and why you are feeling lost right now.