Have you ever had your feelings hurt by someone you know loves you and adores you and did not mean for you to get them hurt? Is it possible that you are choosing to let your feelings get hurt?  If someone loves and adores you and truly does not mean to hurt your feelings there is a way to stop letting it happen.  By stepping back and trying to understand why you let what they said hurt you, you can stop letting it happen.  Especially if you are a natural giver, if you are a giver you may just be taking it personally because you think you are supposed to be someones everything.  See how to stop letting others hurt your feelings and how to recognize why it is happening.